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Last time, we talked about stretch goals, the big, bold targets that push us past comfort. The response was incredible, so let’s go a layer deeper.

Here’s the twist from Duke researcher Dr. Sim Sitkin’s work, The Paradox of Stretch Goals:

“Stretch goals are most seductive for organizations that can least afford the risks.”
That line hits hard.
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The truth is, stretch goals only work when the basics are strong, when your team has energy, confidence, and a little breathing room.
If you’re already running on fumes, a stretch goal won’t lift you. It’ll drain you faster.
So before you chase the impossible, check your foundation:

Momentum – Have we built small wins lately?
Capacity – Do we have room to experiment—and fail safely?
Clarity – Do we know what “good” looks like on the way there?
If you’re missing any of those, start smaller. Build rhythm, then reach.
Because a stretch goal should stretch you—not snap you.

More soon on how to set stretch goals that actually build confidence instead of fear.

Talk soon,

David